There are temples more for women - these are where prayer services, akathists, and litanies are often served and little is said: there is little or no preaching, quick, silent confession, it is difficult to get advice and talk to a priest, he is busy or in a hurry. This is exactly the kind of parish here. You need to talk to parishioners, and you need to teach people, even briefly, at every service. Not everyone has the gift of speech, well, then read those who had this gift. External splendor and beautiful singing are good, but not all that we would like to see at the parish.